Bob Brechbill Tribute Page
The Central PA Music scene mourns
the sudden loss of Big Bob. We wanted to set up
an area for those to pay tribute to Bob. Email your
comments to jimo@hbgonline.com
for posting to this page.
Robert Dale Brechbill
Robert Dale Brechbill, 41, of Harrisburg, died Friday,
December 22, 2006 in the M. S. Hershey Medical Center.
He was born Friday, December 17, 1965, in Lebanon,
PA, and is survived by his wife, Mandy M. (Maxwell)
Brechbill; his parents, Dr. Joseph A. and Lois (Hilsher)
Brechbill of Hershey; a sister, Dr. Louann B. Zinsmeister
and her husband, Robert of Harrisburg; a nephew,
Robert J. Zinsmeister; a niece, Kristin C. Zinsmeister;
and many cousins and friends.
Bob was a 1984 graduate of Hershey
High School and was a principal in the Dynmax Communications
Company of Harrisburg, a company he founded with
his wife, Mandy. He was also a founding member of
the swing band, "Big Tubba Mista", popular
on the East Coast, in which he was the percussionist.
The band made 5 CD's that were distributed internationally.
Bob was very active and participated
as a member of a semi-pro hockey team in an adult
league in Hershey. He was participating in a hockey
game when he became ill and passed away after being
taken to the Hershey Medical Center. He was a life
long member of the First United Methodist Church
in Hershey.
Funeral services will be held Wednesday,
December 27, 2006 at 11 a.m., in the First United
Methodist Church, Hershey. Viewing will be Wednesday
at the church from 9:30 a.m., until service time.
Interment will be in the Grantham Memorial Park
in Grantham.
In lieu of flowers, the family prefers
memorial contributions be made to his church at
64 W. Chocolate Avenue, Hershey, PA 17033. Hoover
Funeral Homes & Crematory, Inc., Hershey, is
handling the arrangements.
Added 12/23
from Negative Space
We lost a friend today. Early this morning
we found out that Bob Brechbill passed away unexpectedly
last night. For those of you who don't know, Big
Bob was our fulltime sound guys for a few years,
and more recently has been helping us part time.
For the years he worked with us, Bob was the sixth
man in the band. He went everywhere we went, and
worked just as hard, if not harder than we did.
But he was so much more than that . . . like i said
at the beginnning, he was a friend. He touched each
one of our lives just by being in them. He always
brought a positive vibe anytime he was around. He
could take the worst situation, and find a way to
laugh about it. As we remembered him today - that
is what kept coming to mind, all the laughs we shared
with him. Beyond working with us - Bob was someone
that everyone in the regional music scene knew.
He was the guy everyone knew they could count on
when they were in a bind. Many times when a band
found themsleves in a last minute situation, you
would here someone suggest 'call Big Bob'. And when
you did - he took care of you. He was like the big
brother you knew you could always count on to make
sure eveything came together right. Our loss today
was a difficult one, but pales in comparison to
that of his wife, Mandy. Our hearts go out to her,
and please keep her in your thoughts as she goes
through this incredibly difficult time.
To lose a friend is one of
the most heartbreaking things to experience. To
lost them unexpectedly makes it sting all that much
more. Big Bob . . . you will be missed by all those
who knew you. We loved you big guy.
Added 12/23 from Alex
I'm kind of new to
the H-Burg scene but I can honestly say that "Big
Bob" was one of the greats...It was "music
to your ears", literally when Bob was on the
boards...I could rest easy knowing Bob was doing
sound that nite...No complaints, very detailed,professional
and all around nice guy.
I remember being backstage with Bob at the Bon Jovi
show when Condition K opened, and laughing at how
cool it was to be on the side of the stage watching
one of our favorite bands open for freakin BON JOVI...!!!!
He was hailed the "ALL STAR" of the show.
He organized the show as if he were doing these
types of shows on a daily basis. Bob was always
positive and a great buddy...Rest In Peace my friend...
We'll miss you Brechbill
Added 12/23 Josh from
JD Lighting
It feels sureal
to me that he is gone. I remember speaking with
him Tuesday night about a show and it
blows my mind how quickly life can change. Bob has
helped me grow my lighting company and helped me
with
lighting gigs. When I needed something I knew I
could always call him with no problem. I even played
hockey with him several times, on my hockey team
and on his at the Hersheypark Arena. He was a great
friend and I will truly miss him. My heart goes
out to Mandy and my prayers are with her thru this
very
difficult time. Love ya Bob, god speed!!!!
Added 12/23 Manian
of Condition K
I am in a state
of complete shock as well; I just talked to him
this past Saturday at Gullifty’s. He has always
been a great friend to the band, someone we could
always count on. He always made us laugh and was
just a super nice guy. He will never be forgotten.
My heart and prayers go out to Bob’s wife
and his family during this difficult time. Here
is something I read once that put into perspective
how precious life is:
"Because we do not know when
we will die, we get to think of life as an inexhaustible
well. And yet everything happens only a certain
number of times, and a very small number really.
How many more times will you remember a certain
afternoon of your childhood, an afternoon that is
so deeply a part of your being that you cannot conceive
of your life without it? Perhaps four, or five times
more? Perhaps not even that. How many more times
will you watch the full moon rise? Perhaps twenty.
And yet it all seems limitless..." - Brandon
Lee
Added 12/23 from Bridges
and a Bottle
Yesterday Bridges and a Bottle learned we had lost
a member of our family. On Thursday December 21
our good friend Bob Brechbill passed away. For the
past several years Bob has worked with us as our
front of house sound engineer, traveling to shows,
practices, recording studios everything with the
band and at the same time he was the drummer for
the band Big Tubba Mista. There wasn't a better
person for the job then Bob, but more
important was his personality. Bob had a way about
him when he was in a room, always laughing cracking
jokes and telling stories from his years on the
road. Bobs touch on the music scene in this area
and our daily lives
can't be put into words. He was truly a great friend
to Bridges and he leaves a big hole in all of our
hearts with his passing. Our condolences to his
family, wife Mandy, friends, band mates and fans.
Thank you Bob for everything you have given us,
it was truly our pleasure to have known you in this
life.
Added 12/23 from BigJim of
HBGOnline
What can you say about a guy
that has touched so many within our community? Bob
was the go to guy when you needed something. When
bands, venues and even other sound companies needed
something in a pinch, Bob was the guy to call. In
fact my last time spent with Bob, he was running
sound at Gullifty’s because they needed someone
last minute. Perhaps we can all return the favor
for Bob’s family in their time of need, with
our prayers and thoughts.
A sudden loss is never easy,
but perhaps we can all use this as a learning experience.
Live your life to the fullest everyday, because
you never know when it’s your time to leave.
Billy Joel was right “Only the good die young”.
Big Bob was a good guy and will be deeply missed.
Added 12/24 Justin Neighbour
(Former drummer of Negative Space)
I learned of Triple B’s (Big Bob Brechbill)
passing early Friday morning from my old band mates
in Negative Space. I was the drummer in that band
for about two years. At that time Bob was our full
time sound engineer. He traveled with us in our
crappy van everywhere we went and was basically
the 6th member of our family. Over the two years
that I was in Neg. Space, me, Bob, and his wife
Mandy all became really good friends. Bob was without
question one of the funniest guys I have ever met.
He had such a great sense of humor and a certain
air about him that would just kind of light up a
room and immediately make people happy. Let’s
not forget that he was an amazing musician, sound
engineer, and just an all around great guy. No matter
what type of mood I was in, he always would lift
my spirits. When I look back at my two years in
Neg. Space all of my best memories have something
to do with the Big Guy. From him drawing the most
outlandish things on my drum heads, to doing little
dances backstage, to putting duck tape mustaches
on his face while we were performing. He was just
the best. Bob and I remained close friends after
I parted from Neg. Space. We always talked on the
phone about, drums, music, what our favorite beer
of the month was, what color he was going to dye
his hair, how many times he went to Dunkin Donuts
that day, and so many other things that always put
a smile on my face. I always knew if I was in a
down mood, I could just call Brother Brechbill and
the problem was solved. I have been looking through
my picture catalogue from Neg. Space and I have
so many awesome pics of Bob just being Bob. They
are priceless. Well, I am sure Triple B is up in
Heaven right now, playing drums or mixing sound
for some crazy angel band, drinking a nice cold
Canadian beer of some sort, and just making people
happy. Bob, thanks for so many amazing memories.
Thanks for always making me laugh and thanks for
being my friend. I miss you already brother.
Added 12/24 from Fred Pellegrini
of Holis
For many of us times have changed. It was
easier walking on stage when you knew Bob was at
the desk. He conveyed confidence, humor, and energy.
He was truly a skilled musician, a great person,
and a good friend, not to mention his talents mixing
sound.
When we were kids playing football
he used to ram headfirst at my gut as a defensive
lineman trying to get to the quarterback. Bob always
liked to nail people in the gut – with humor,
a subwoofer, a drum set, or a hockey stick.
He’s gone and done it again
…
Perhaps the measure of a man is his
touch on others lives. Bob touched hundreds, maybe
thousands. The loss is ours, even more so for Mandy
and Bob’s family. We will miss you Bob. Thanks
for the moments and memories.
Added 12/24 from RANDAL RAY
ROBERTSON of Triple R Guitar
Bob will be loved and missed by all of
us here at Triple R Guitar. I have known bob for
over 20 years and we did all kinds of stupid stuff
together, including the haunted hay rides at Indian
Echo Caverns. We were actually part of the cast
and Bob and I would party while everybody else got
on their costumes and makeup. We would then just
throw on a mask and look at each other and say “done”.
We said that to each other every time we saw each
other for the rest of our lives. We will miss his
humor and his smile forever. Love ya Bob!
Added 12/25 from Michael
Anthony Smith
Bob was a friend of mine. I'm going to
miss him. He was a kind and generous person, who
I enjoyed being around. He helped me realize my
dream of recording my own music. Without him, it
would have never happened. I've never been able
to express to him just how much that meant to me,
nor can I do it now. When I think of him, I'll think
of many pasta dinners, going to the Gettysburg cemetaries
on Halloween, and trying unsuccesfully to shoot
a basket in his driveway. He was really nice to
me, even when I was being an irritating schmuck,
he was nice to me. I'm glad I knew him.
Added 12/27 from Smokin'
Gunnz
Bob, Terry, Chris and Mike from Smokin'
Gunnz would like to take a moment to say goodbye
to Bob. We didn't get many opportunities to work
with him as a band but individually we all knew
him. Some of us better than others. Our drummer,
Bob Morris, spent some time with him in school in
Hershey and our bassist, Terry Sherry, spent time
working with Bob in a previous band some years back.
As for myself, Chris, I probably knew him the least
but was immedietly touched by his kindness, professionalism
but most of all the fact that each time we saw each
other, he always greeted me with a hand shake. It
was something I always respected about him. He had
a smile a mile wide and we rarely saw him without
it.
We dedicated last Saturday night's performance to
Bob and made a toast to his memory. I'm sure it
was only one of many last weekend and only one of
many more to come from his legions of friends and
family alike. We will all miss him.
A Brief Candle, Both Ends Burning
An Endless Mile, A Bus Wheel Turning
A Friend To Share A Lonesome Time,
A Handshake And A Sip Of Wine
Say It Loud And Let It Ring,
That We're All Part Of Everything
The Future, Present And The Past,
Fly On Proud Bird, You're Free At Last
C.Daniels, Oct. 1977
Added 12/29 from Jack O'Hara
Bob Call" was the King of The Core. Bob built
The Core for people who wouldn't or couldn't fit
into the normal world. It was a place where we could
hang out, be ourselves, and go a little crazy.He
provided a stage for local bands who couldn't play
other places, and Bob was always right up front
cheering. The biggest, craziest, most fun shows
my band Eight Ball ever played were at The Core.
Bob also arranged for some of the best bands in
the world to play at The Core. For just a few bucks,
you could have the best time of your life. Even
if nothing was going on that night, it was fun just
to spend time there with Bob. He was always friendly,
energetic, and excited to see you. You couldn't
help feeling like a million bucks when you were
around him. I'll always remember his enthusiam and
commitment to what was important to him. I'll always
be thankful for his support to Eight Ball and all
the good times he helped create.
Added 12/29 from Ronnie Rhoads
of Mustang
Bob's passing has deeply saddened us. He was a great
guy and an excellent sound man. We worked with Bob
quite a few times and ALWAYS enjoyed it! Bob personally
helped us by recording us live and taking the time
to mix it for us. He did this at no charge to the
band and his generosity will always be appreciated.
Mandy, We are truly sorry for your loss. If there
is anything we can do just let us know.
Added 01/02 from Matt Mozzachio
Horrible news came to me hours into the new year.
Stunned and shocked, I struggled to make sense of
it, have only worked with him weeks ago. Only knowing
him as Bob of Dyna Max, we worked the Carlisle Theater
together. As someone who only only occassionally
works production, Bob amazed me at his utter lack
of music industry attitude. After the last show,
I was attempting to leave after wrapping up my lighting
chores, and Bob just gave me this puppy dog look
as I headed for the door. At this point I remembered
his heart issues and wobbly walk and offered to
push the gear out the door and up the ramp. I still
had 1+ hour to drive home, but I could not leave
him hanging so I helped. Liking him so much, we
even hung around a while to chat about business
after the work was done. I was looking forward to
getting to know him better an seeing his business
grow.
To all his friends, family, and business
associates, I am deeply saddened by your loss. May
we all remember and honor his life.
Added 01/02 from Space {drummer
for Lead Foot, Scapegoat}
I'll never forget the last time I ran into Bob @
Gulliftys night club back in October filling me
in on BTM and sharing some laughs. Little did I
know that it would be the last time I would see
you my friend. I haven't really seen you a whole
lot the past several years due to me living on the
left coast, but the old times we had when you were
in Last Call and I was in Scapegoat was a very wild
and crazy ride and I'll never forget them. Those
were definitely some of the best shows and times
of my life. This past new years eve was the very
first time that I have played a new years eve show
in my 26 years of playing live, but the whole night
was dedicated to you buddy. It was an honor and
privilege knowing you...I can see you in heaven
now sharing licks with Bonzo, along side Jimi Hendrix,
Randy Rhoads, ect....Give'em Hell in Heaven buddy!!
Added 01/04 from David Crowther
Where are we going lads?
To the Top!
What Top?
The Very Top!
Let's Rock and Roll!
Bobby and I were in a band together back in high
school, a long, long time ago. There was a rip-off
tv-movie at the time that dramatized the early days
of the Beatles, which we both thought was pretty
funny, and we took the above mantra from it and
used it every chance we got. I cannot think of Bob
without thinking of that.
I lost touch with Bobby, and I did not know about
BTM until last year. But it does not surprise me
that Bobby was loved by so many people. He was big
in all the best ways. He was like that right from
the start. To a lot of people who have written their
tributes, and to a lot more who have kept theirs
private, Bobby made it to the top, all right. The
very top.
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